Sharing a home-cooked meal and cleaning up the kitchen afterward aren’t Hollywood’s ideas of a winning Rom-Com, but I’ve found that those genuine moments nurture love and create space for authentic conversations. Being a foodie, I enjoy preparing meals with my boyfriend. We nurture “us” through food. The simple act of going out of my way at the grocery store to buy ingredients for a new recipe instead of relying on the standard chicken dinner is one example. He keeps an assortment of teas at th…